Surviving .. We need to find New tools to help us.

Surviving .. We need to find New tools to help us.Surviving .. We need to find New tools to help us.Surviving .. We need to find New tools to help us.
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  • problems
    • THE Problem
    • 911 PREVENTION Support
    • Life is just not fair!
    • A Societal emergency
    • "Theory of everything"
    • a possible solution?
    • Listen! Think, reconsider
    • proof of our insanity
  • solutions?
    • How to use this site
    • How to survive today
    • simple, quick, you choose
    • control our MIND = POWER!
    • detach/ accept / expect
    • connection and BELONGING
    • Deservedness vs sabotage
    • rebuild hope and faith
    • DUALITY .. many realities
    • maybe .. THINK A LITTLE??
  • DIVISION
    • omg we are so DIVIDED!
    • WE! Right AND Left Brain
    • Evil .. punish vs forgive
    • Just be positive??
    • our societal "LIFE bank"
    • The problem with thinkers
    • Better Human relationship
  • Steroid "Prozac"
    • mind vs brain, very NB!
    • stop despair .. reframe
    • How to LIFT our SPIRITS
    • energy vibration, very NB
    • "Thin spaces".. Go there!
    • Science/Religion converge
  • re-learn
    • a Re-Education Curriculum
    • Resource Management
    • relearn WORDS, brain/mind
    • fact? truth? HALF Truth?
    • listen! think! REconsider
    • Health! Our biggest ASSET
    • OTHER (reconsider facts)
    • So many questions!
  • connect
    • OUR MISSION
    • who am I? Contact
    • blog ..crazy ideas? rage?
    • member, invest or partner
  • more
    • terms, definitions
    • awesome finds!
    • move these, not ready
    • spell check humour
  • More
    • survive
    • problems
      • THE Problem
      • 911 PREVENTION Support
      • Life is just not fair!
      • A Societal emergency
      • "Theory of everything"
      • a possible solution?
      • Listen! Think, reconsider
      • proof of our insanity
    • solutions?
      • How to use this site
      • How to survive today
      • simple, quick, you choose
      • control our MIND = POWER!
      • detach/ accept / expect
      • connection and BELONGING
      • Deservedness vs sabotage
      • rebuild hope and faith
      • DUALITY .. many realities
      • maybe .. THINK A LITTLE??
    • DIVISION
      • omg we are so DIVIDED!
      • WE! Right AND Left Brain
      • Evil .. punish vs forgive
      • Just be positive??
      • our societal "LIFE bank"
      • The problem with thinkers
      • Better Human relationship
    • Steroid "Prozac"
      • mind vs brain, very NB!
      • stop despair .. reframe
      • How to LIFT our SPIRITS
      • energy vibration, very NB
      • "Thin spaces".. Go there!
      • Science/Religion converge
    • re-learn
      • a Re-Education Curriculum
      • Resource Management
      • relearn WORDS, brain/mind
      • fact? truth? HALF Truth?
      • listen! think! REconsider
      • Health! Our biggest ASSET
      • OTHER (reconsider facts)
      • So many questions!
    • connect
      • OUR MISSION
      • who am I? Contact
      • blog ..crazy ideas? rage?
      • member, invest or partner
    • more
      • terms, definitions
      • awesome finds!
      • move these, not ready
      • spell check humour

Surviving .. We need to find New tools to help us.

Surviving .. We need to find New tools to help us.Surviving .. We need to find New tools to help us.Surviving .. We need to find New tools to help us.
  • survive
  • problems
    • THE Problem
    • 911 PREVENTION Support
    • Life is just not fair!
    • A Societal emergency
    • "Theory of everything"
    • a possible solution?
    • Listen! Think, reconsider
    • proof of our insanity
  • solutions?
    • How to use this site
    • How to survive today
    • simple, quick, you choose
    • control our MIND = POWER!
    • detach/ accept / expect
    • connection and BELONGING
    • Deservedness vs sabotage
    • rebuild hope and faith
    • DUALITY .. many realities
    • maybe .. THINK A LITTLE??
  • DIVISION
    • omg we are so DIVIDED!
    • WE! Right AND Left Brain
    • Evil .. punish vs forgive
    • Just be positive??
    • our societal "LIFE bank"
    • The problem with thinkers
    • Better Human relationship
  • Steroid "Prozac"
    • mind vs brain, very NB!
    • stop despair .. reframe
    • How to LIFT our SPIRITS
    • energy vibration, very NB
    • "Thin spaces".. Go there!
    • Science/Religion converge
  • re-learn
    • a Re-Education Curriculum
    • Resource Management
    • relearn WORDS, brain/mind
    • fact? truth? HALF Truth?
    • listen! think! REconsider
    • Health! Our biggest ASSET
    • OTHER (reconsider facts)
    • So many questions!
  • connect
    • OUR MISSION
    • who am I? Contact
    • blog ..crazy ideas? rage?
    • member, invest or partner
  • more
    • terms, definitions
    • awesome finds!
    • move these, not ready
    • spell check humour

"Law of Attraction" reconsidered, with Quantum Physics

So confusing! Can I stand on a train tack while the train is coming and my focus will keep me alive?

No .. we are talking big picture, long term with the law of attraction. AND .. things do network how we want them to immediately and may seem they are going the worms way. The later we find we got exactly the vision we wanted, the detours just added to the journey to perfect. Once you start paying attention the universe sends us so many many things we need to get where we want. I have a 20 year library of books .. 1/3 to half of which were universe sent, perfect to take me a step closer to the goal .. a new "system" .. basic quality of life for all.


But a lot of set backs and losses happened. I was NOT being negative as some suggested. Negative thoughts will bring you negative events or things. But I suggest worrying, contemplating consequences of actions can cause many obstacles to fall in our path. Solely thinkng of your own personal goal never letting the focus wander WILL GIVE YOU SUCCESS FASTER. But some of us have wandering brains .. and that wandering has been what REAL PROGRESS, invention and transformation of humanity has been built on. Most philosophers, inventors, artists, scientists became more well known later .. after years of research, and then were often not wealthy our mark of "success" today.

There is no "magnet" giving us the good we hope for. I was way simplifying, plus many of us sabotage

many of us sabotage ourselves because we put others welfare first. (see selfish selfless spectrum) So we do not attract good to ourselves.


see this great article explaining the quantum physics of it, link button below

It is more a quantum Physics explanation, not my magnet idea!

Does Left vs Right Hemisphere Brain affect your "success".

Could seeing particle be (ME), while wave is (everybody)?

I have tons more research to do into the whole science where you see the light as a particle or a wave in the Slit experiment. They have determined the difference of whether we see a particle OR wave, is solely DETERMINED BY WHAT WE EXPECT!! Is it possible this is how we create our different realities? I mean we live in the same world yet experience it so differently! Are they just better using the law of attraction, seeing MY SUCCESS, vs worrying about everything? great explanation of the science/ history of quantum concepts.)


Some of us struggle mightily just to get by today. We try hard, work hard but the good life just escapes us. Yet others easily make it to the top. No doubt they have some personal resources we might not, (sociable, good talkers, deal with negotiation well, have an answer for everything, keep the focus solely on profit or personal success) but why exactly do some even jerk, not so great people seem to always win? I suggest they see the particle .. as ME, myself and I. Perhaps us less successful see more .. how others, and the environment will be affected.


Action Warrior people just want the job done, the goal reached, to accomplish. This is more SELF oriented. Thinkers (Right brain worriers) want to understand which would include all affected. If your brain is wide open to all the components affected by an action, the decision to act is much slower. Slow decisions do not make fast profit, BUT instead consider the unwanted consequences of actions. 


Climate change is happening because "progress", profit and power are more important "successes" than GETTING IT RIGHT. When you focus solely on accomplishing your task you are more assured of success. If you see far more than a particle (a goal) analyzing and evaluating future consequences complicate the outcome. Is it possible "Mental illness" was a stigma to get rid of troublesome worriers ad creatives that thought and contemplated concepts more deeply?

warrior (vs worrier), plus at the more selfish end of the spectrum, would surely make life easier

It is far easier to be successful with a "me first, screw you" attitude. For too long we have forgotten the second part of the mask idea, "Put on your own plane mask first .. SO YOU CAN THEN BE ABLE HELP OTHERS". Today too many help themselves with never a thought to the common good. see, "Thinkers"

Worriers are curious, wondering "why?", "but what about ..?" We have less time to "BE SUCCESSFUL"

Concern for others, leaves us less time to BE SUCCESSFUL for ourselves!


Left brain Warriors focus on the battle. How can it be won quickly? Left Brain is the hare, while right brain thinking Tortoises are slow, but contemplate cause and consequence.

"Free Will" .. suggests I choose to accomplish or NOT accomplish .. and just be a loser

Nobody wants to be a loser!! Whoever thinks that sorry .. but is a non thinking IDIOT. We all want to be valued and respected. We want to be worthy and admired for our ability. But some of us have e more talent in the inventive creative area, not the management area. a few decades ago we would partner our opposing skills and build amazing new businesses. But as brain wiring became more and more damaged be "progress", this collaboration has become less possible. 

Why do Haitians deserve earth quakes, or Guatemalan's crops destroyed by climate change?

They had no part in the excess, consumerism, disrespect for nature that us westerners did. How can there be a god if he harms those who did nothing. And how does a law of attraction work here. They never wished harm on themselves. But they SAW the mistakes of our disrespect for nature and were no doubt concerned. Does CONCERN and worry, paying attention to MORE than self not allow the best for us?


Selfish, profit obsessed people WIN because it is their SOLE FOCUS. And they feel deserving of all good. But right brain worriers feel guilt and remorse which I suggest then brings them a bad reality instead of good.

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How about seeing "particles vs waves" creates our life? Is a particle a fact (A), but a wave (ABC) i

How about seeing "particles vs waves" creates our "success"?

.. or lack of "success"


The attitude of wealth ..  "I am a success because I worked hard! Why didn't you try harder?", creates dehumanization and injustice that ferments. Running a Homeless Shelter is more SOCIETAL SUCCESS than Financial success that respects only profit and gaining power. 


The Division of the "successful" from the Losers, or even the struggling masses from those with a thrice daily 6$ Starbucks, has become too great. Anger and eventual rage will explode when a resentful gun owner sees a $350,000 McLaren car, while he has 2 jobs but can't cover living expenses. Be careful Power People .. when a 74 year old entitled white lady wants to invent a bullet for " feeling superior LOSERS" we have problem. 


My "bullet" invention would paralyze them. Once the fear of dying had them thinkng "wow what a jerk I have been, I am going to be a kinder more compassionate and FAIR person!" .. then they would get unparalyzed, un "frozen". 


That would be SOOOO much fun! Especially the 2 McLaren "non humans" I just saw, who of course sped away loud as hell to call attention to their superiority. Had I seen them get in their cars I would have yelled "you still don't have any balls!". Crap .. I need to start looking after  myself again .. I don't want them to ignore little old lady. I'll never look like Cher or Jane Fonda but at least not "old lady" to be ignored!



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