Little reminders that help us? like Ben Franklin 2.0 quotes?
We live in an"EEEEE!!" Society! EVERYTHING ..EXTREME ..EXCESS .. EVERYDAY.. EXHAUSTING!! STOP it! 😱
Fri. Jan. 16, 2026, 8:30 am.
STOP IT! or we DIE. At least NORMAL real HUMANS can NOT survive EEEE! "Everything, Extreme, Excess, Everyday EXHAUSTION!! is now a TERMINAL CANCER! WE either STOP the INSANE nonsense of our "civilization" gone NOT civil or humanity is VERY soon over. Get back to natural .. be NORMAL .. a normal human NOT competing every moment to WIN. Instead of NORMAL civil discussing HUMANS, MAGA and WOKE spend everyday "playing ping pong". Smashing ideas back and forth with no aim of SOLUTION only to WIN .. toBEAT the other guy! But HERE, in society or Humanity .. the ball and its loss is DAMAGING our TOTAL Human HEALTH. our "games" or discussion have become VICIOUS, no longer a fun way to spend time.
We even bat around WORDS to WIN! Words should be CIVIL COMMUNICATION a fun way to LEARN new ideas or gain INTELLIGENCE! But we even need to WIN or "be best" here! Words today are used by MAGA and WOKE as screaming WEAPONS, nothing to do with LEARNING. I guess when you LOSE your Right THINKING hemisphere BRAIN .. we R B who like to DISCUSS become "the OTHER" (the enemy) to be BEATEN!
In our EEEE society, the GAME of Ping Pong is also "WORDS"! In an EEEE society where all is VICIOUS COMPETITION to win, the "game" goes from D (GOOD) to D4 (TOXIC!) DDDD .. DISCUSS! (good) > Divide > Debate > DEMONIZE. MAGA and WOKE with ONLY a focus on WIN will even TWIST those words to win. ANYTHING to win. WIN LOSE is the only acceptable outcome for Left brains! Right brains and BALANCED NORMAL Humans prefer a WIN WIN solution!
WE can keep up the VICIOUS games of COMPETITION and FINISH destroying society .. or CALM DOWN! WINNING at ALL COST does not make you a man OR a winner. It just makes you a VICIOUS ZOMBIE devoid of HUMANITY. There are still beings roaming around .. but too many have lost their MIND and Heart. A spirit focused ONLY on WINNING at all costs, destroys EVERYTHING. Left brains because they are UNABLE to THINK, must QUICKLY WIN .. before they get confused. Life is a CHESS game but we DEVOLVED our quality of life into BADMINTON. BAD .. a curious irony!
Don't CHERRY PICK facts! That is just a nice way to say NO LYING! Half facts! or even TWIST anything
Wed. Dec 10, 2025, 1:15 pm.
Gov Shapiro (Dem) and COX (R) CNN lovely discussion!
Disagree CONSTRUCTIVELY! Down with "?rhetoric", UP with Human ENGAGEMENT
rhetoric .. persuading toward GOOD is great .. TWISTING for bad intention is EVIL.. HAH! Same thing BOTH good AND evil!
If I finally can see ABORTION as good AND evil we have moved closer to TRUTH. YES as my son wisely said if you do it because lazy and irresponsible BAD. Apparently some have had SEVERAL! Just because it is NOT FAIR men get off Scott free does not mean we should not TAKE ALL THE RESPONSIBILITY! I suppose these MEAN women ("We are equal! ☹️ but I am a weak little victim! .. whenever it is convenient for ME!."😔) just scream about MEN instead of take some responsibility. men commit suicide so much more .. because many women are SELFISH and unfair.
If women are "EQUAL" to men .. Why can't we just BOTH M/F .. be HUMANS .. treated fairly? Seems a very TWISTED (use/take) mentality for ?many women. So I guess the moral of the story is ABORTION is definitely BETTER than raising an unwanted child to become a "bad guy". "Bad guys are MADE .. not born." (said by genius Mayor Tory) People who are not supported and loved and made to feel DESERVING, I bet are ALL the people who get into trouble. Those who say no abortion are so JUDGEMENTAL .. either OR binary with closed mind and NO CONTEMPLATIVE THINKING. I would think I am right there is NO argument that NURTURE or lack of .. has a FAR bigger INFLUENCE than your genes .. in who you turn out to Be!!
"I understand you feel nothing is better" is not admitting defeat or taking blame, but showing you C
BUT .. Left brains feel that is a LOSS and they accept ONLY WINNING. Trump and his MAGA plus even WOKE are great examples of inability tp SEE the others point of view BY THINKING MORE DEEPLY. But first I guess there is always the CLOSED MIND! Unless we can OPEN OUR MIND to listen and HEAR new IDEAS, there will NEVER be peace or even civility in discussion.
Can we even get our head around 2 THINGS can BOTH be TRUE .. at the SAME time. BOTH/AND, not ..
sorry .. this is NOT in the right spot .. move to ? TRUTH? or CALCULATE VALUE
.. NOT Either /or! Either /OR AND true/ false is BINARY. Somehow I have only taken "gun/no gun", trying to analyze which one is TRUE? rather than gut reaction or FIRST THOUGHT? .. vs BOTH have "TRUTH" in them. Our job in life is to CALCULATE which is the best and least HARM for the most and least. So that means everything is BOTH .. True AND False! 😱 All these years I have been wrong! First I spent my life saying "just be FAIR and always tell the truth = good life for all.". But alas life is so much more COMPLEX. I did recognize we need to calculate the GREY .. nothing is black and white. OMG no wonder [people with more tunnel vision CLOSED mind are unable to anything but BINARY. How sad .. we are dead! Our brains have been destroyed by greed and now as sheep, we further destroyed our BRAIN health.
Allowing "convenience", competitiveness, and CONSUMPTION to take over world has destroyed civilization and REAL Humans. A I is the STEROID EXTREME of fast and easy CONVENIENT! Why? I did fine as a young person without the world in my HAND! I could communicate CIVILLY with others. I could find the beauty farm down the road then! But recently a now new MOTHER was unable to do so because her phone was out of battery power!! 🙈 😱 It is just DOWN the street girl!! SHE is raising our next generation. Maybe our biggest TOOL to help us is to OPEN our mind to THINK .. think about the DOWNFALL we are creating for Humanity. we are STUPID .. and selfish .. NOT a good recipe for future success!
GOOD Humans SOMETIMES simplify. BAD Humans ALWAYS simplify! Overload =overwhelm =SIMPLIFY= MORE BAD!
Sat. Jan. 10, 2026, 2:20 pm.
Re Minnesota mom ICE shooter .. we should take the time/energy to HUMANIZE the shooter not just "Closed Mind" simplify = murder. Simplifying with a CLOSED mind is BIASED. Our job as Normal HUMANS is to try to NOT be biased! Are all the screaming Protesters just closed minded? If the ICE guy who did the shooting was hit and dragged by a protester 6 months ago he would BE more trigger happy, fearful, emotional .. vs careful and in control. Seeing him as our brother or friend makes it LESS right wrong, good/ evil!
I guess we need to HUMANIZE everybody .. not just those friends family we already have a more open mind toward. Accepting those who are "friends" BUT not others, is BIAS and not FAIR! Life must be FAIR or we have NEVER ENDING WAR! Sadly, we ALL have a Closed Mind on many things. Yet we BELIEVE we are Open Minded "GOOD Humans" who care. Those of us who BELIEVE life must be FAIR to all .. also have to try harder! A fully CLOSED MIND is why I say BOTH MAGA and WOKE are Left brain. Left brain SIMPLIFIES into good/ bad, right/wrong. REAL CONNECTED Human Life is far more complex than simple EITHER/OR!" LIFE is "BOTH/AND" can be true at the same time, not just simple "either/or"! WE either leave our brain OPEN to LEARN new ideas, to UNDERSTAND the OTHER .. or humanity is EXTINCT! ( 🙈 please do not NOTICE that those words TOO, are "either/or"!! 😂 ) Maybe after being confused for 70 years .. my final conclusion should have some weight, some VALUE?? Balance and moderation is necessary here too, because we can not STUDY everything to calculate its NET VALUE it. BUT! Sharing, CONNECTING our human Intelligence makes it possible to KNOW the NET human value of most things!! We replace LAWS with calculating NET human VALUE of actions!
This is actually our very basis for the TRUTH FACTORY and "Net Human VALUE" calculation Accounting SYSTEM! When we GENERALIZE or simplify we are just saving time .. probably stressed and overwhelmed. Do us Thinkers always OVERWHELM Left brains? We become the ENEMY and they lash out!
Life is NOTa choice of which R/L turn to take! My son says there is only ONE Driver.We must go Ror L
NO! we are ALONE in life .. WALKING! We can go down alleys and thru buildings, make our OWN ZIG ZAG Path!! Unlike a CAR .. we have many more choices and options, just like our balanced (R. THINK, L. ACTION) FUNCTIONING brains does. Our brain gives us OPTIONS of IDEAS! But we got disabled and LAZY, so we choose SIMPLY, Left or right.. right/wrong, good vs bad! Sadly those with little Right brain wiring are UNABLE to say "BUT .., What about .. ! What if .. ?"
MORE is never better .. it is just extreme excess and always destroys what WAS good in it.
Like the Golden globes .. I know no actors because 7 million shows means there is NO CONNECTION. Sure we thought ANYONE able to have a radio station, paper or even TV Show or movie was GREAT, but maybe because we ALL thought we were SPECIAL it just lost any HUMAN CONNECTION. 7 Million loses the whole Ed Sullivan Beatles JOY and everything is just MORE competition. Probably the COMPETITION is where things went wrong. If we do something we love and SHARE the joy .. that is totally different than today's constant COMPETITION. Always battle, WIN/LOSE .. is not Normal HUMAN Family/ Home behaviour. Normal Humans prefer some WIN/WIN for all.
Often I do NOT like say JeanSmart?Taylor Swift?whoever. Then when they chat they actually seem NICE!
Sun. Jan. 11, 2026, 9:30 pm.
Do NOT judge HARSHLY or fast .. or make up your own biased perspective that you have no right to! When am I going to REMEMBER THIS like a Habit? I deserve a trophy for dumb SLOW TURTLE. Takes 100 times before get it .. yet when others do not get what I say .. first time they are idiots. OMG .. I am a MEAN evil AND stupid person! Crap! 😱 OK .. rememebr to judge FAR FAR more slowly .. like the guy on the phone who then helped the blind person as I wanked away. NO MORE .. I do not like this web site .. or writing! I am almost 80 and now I learn I am MEAN .. and stupid at learning??? 🙈 😢 OK this is not very Ben Franklin .. I better MOVE this!
The Thesaurus .. our BIBLE of BALANCE!!
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Other's good words ..
- OPRAH .. "Don't let the NOISE steal your joy" ( J angry, feeling I was blaming HIM for losing my cell photos .. making me sad .. while I had been so excited re finding a draw APP that sounded useful .. POSITIVE possibilities of RE learning tech.